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    Hello all. I'm back after a horrible divorce that took WAY TOO LONG to happen. Ready to participate with all ventures I feel able too. Perhaps I'll even post some of my thoughts and feelings on Carol's threads... Whatever, my heart hurts yet is emptied at the same time. My daughter is sad yet clear...There is a prayer for this... "Allah shatter my heart so that a new room may be created"
    If anyone has gone through this please pm me as I can use all the support I can get right now.Can't promise to reply right away but I'll do my best.
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    many hugs for you.

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    Thanks. I used to train dogs and I'm howling right about now...
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    if you ever want to talk dogs, feel free to PM me

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    I will! I guess my problem is I am used to being the alpha bitch...
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    ((((((((((Lafitte))))))))))

    Very tough times ahead. I was married for nine years before I met my hubby - it was about a year that I was on my own. Now I have two fantastic kids and a comfortable life. But those last four years before the split - it changes you. It took that year in between to realize that I had to fit comfortably in my own shoes again. Then I did.

    Who says we need to be married. Who says we need to mold ourselves to someone else's will. Who says we need to change. Others usually. And it's others that usually change us. But I see many people not comfy in their own shoes until they go back to who they are at the core of their very being. The rest is just window dress and tweaking and growing only makes us stronger.

    I hope you can get past this. It is like a death in your life. And you need to go through all the proper stages to get yourself back to your core self. All I can suggest is to go through the stages - allow yourself to do that.

    We've missed you Lafitte. I've been wondering where you have been along with Snowy.

    You will be in my thoughts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lafitte View Post
    I will! I guess my problem is I am used to being the alpha bitch...
    absolutely!

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    You know Lafitte I use to do something that helped me. I always thought that I was a little nutsy so possibly this only helps those that are a little off. LOL!

    But - when I was alone - I would have a conversation as if I was going to a therapist - but I didn't have the $250 an hour bill. And I cursed loudly too.

    Something like this:

    So tell me how you feel today.
    Lousey!!!!
    And that's because.......
    You stupid bitc* because my life is too stressful now!!!!
    And that's because.......
    Oh shut the effin up.......you know why because!!!!!!

    Stupid @$%&*% because $$^%@ and in the mean time &^&()$ so now I can just *)#$% without my #%#*^!!!! I don't think anyone has a ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ life!!!!

    And that's it. It really helps.

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    Quote Originally Posted by j15bell View Post
    ((((((((((Lafitte))))))))))

    But I see many people not comfy in their own shoes until they go back to who they are at the core of their very being. And you need to go through all the proper stages to get yourself back to your core self. All I can suggest is to go through the stages - allow yourself to do that.

    We've missed you Lafitte. I've been wondering where you have been along with Snowy.

    You will be in my thoughts.

    Jean
    Yeah you right!!!! Thank you so much for re-iterating what I have forgotten!!!
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